452. Young Girls have to be Emotionally Empowered....!

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“How can you send your daughter to the shop at this late hours?” said a man, the time was 7.30 P.M. The father of the girl replied, “My daughter is strong emotionally if any Roadside Romeo acts too smart she knows how to behave.”

The father of the girl had empowered his daughter with courage and had encouraged her to feel powerful from within. This is what every parent has to induce in their young daughters. There is a lot of emphasis on empowering women economically and socially which is good but before that in the family level a young girl has to be emotionally empowered. We have often observed that the family tends to condition a girl child differently as compared to a boy. While the boy is given a free hand to choose the young girl is not allowed, it will be her mother who will be acting on her behalf. Not that it is not right, but even the young girl has to have her say also. In some families she is not entertained to take part in the family discussion fearing that she may become too argumentative or vociferous. If this was true even the boys in the house would be so.

Emotionally empowered young girls are in control of themselves and do not fall prey to emotional traps. They know how to uphold their self-esteem and have an ear to the inner voice. When emotionally empowered no one can deceive a young girl with rosy words or fancy goods. She will know who she is, what she feels, most importantly, she will understand from where she is experiencing the feelings. Is it from her head or heart? There are many who take advantages when they know a girl has emotional flow only from her heart.   

If a young girl is emotionally empowered she will never shy away from conflict and become silent instead she will raise her voice without looking for others to support her or show sympathy to her. This is a quality that is and should be a must for every girl to say she is equal in all respects to a man. She will never regard some the past unfortunate experiences and become timid alternatively she will try to see that the unfortunate incidence will never happen to her or her tribe again. There will be no misuse or abuse by her male counterparts.     

This does not stop there an emotionally empowered young girl goes on to become a strong mother who can take up the responsibility of the kid and the family. She will not deter from her duty as mother and will be the guide to her children. Now it is not the financial status which is haunting women any more it is the social panic which is confronting her as a devil. To fight this evil menace she has to be emotionally empowered. And more importantly if she is emotionally empowered she will not let herself in such situations.

There are issues like pointing out the disadvantages of women empowerment in the social as well as economical arena. If as a young girl she is emotionally empowered by the parents she is moulded right to fitting into any of the empowerment without misusing and making a mess of herself.        

I want my daughter to be Emotionally Empowered ……Do you????